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Government Cheese for Wealthy Moms

A worker prepares boxes of free food for distribution in Chelsea, Mass., July 9.



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President Ronald Reagan famously distributed 60 million pounds of surplus cheese to poor Americans in 1981. Four decades later, middle-class moms are taking advantage of a welfare loophole to get their own government cheese.

In August, the U.S. Department of Agriculture began allowing schools to distribute food without verifying that a recipient has a child enrolled in public school or eligible for free or subsidized meals. That means anyone can roll up to a food-distribution site to get a free bag of food.

On

Facebook,

a mom in the wealthy Virginia suburb of Washington where I live recently posted pictures of an elegant cheese board she’d created with items she snagged from the city’s food giveaway. She could afford to buy the cheese, dried and fresh fruits, vegetables, whole-grain muffins, breakfast bars, dip, yogurt, crackers and bread, all displayed on a wood platter.

Reactions were glowing. In the comment section, two moms swapped tips on which city food-distribution site had the best products.

The mom who posted the photo cloaked herself in virtue. “The city is encouraging every family to pick up their free meals . . . to maintain funding, access, and to reduce stigma,” she wrote. “Picking up your free lunch might mean a job kept, a food item not thrown away, and a child with food in their fridge.”

Yet shouldn’t there be a stigma associated with a financially secure person who lives in a tony neighborhood obtaining food at taxpayer expense?

True, there’s a stigma associated with taking government food, which may prevent some needy families from partaking. Yet there’s a better way to tackle that problem. Cities could encourage those in need to apply for Pandemic Electronic Benefits Transfer benefits, which provide what looks like a credit card that allows them to shop at regular grocery stores—stigma-free.

That would also relieve poor families from having to wait in line for food alongside well-heeled, virtue-signaling moms.

Ms. Gunlock is director of the Independent Women’s Forum’s Center for Progress and Innovation.

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Parenting in today’s society is exhausting, so let’s be more like 90s moms | Momaha

They used this thing called their gut, and when they were struggling with something, they turned to family and friends for opinions and advice. Above all, they trusted they were making the right decision for their child because no one made them think otherwise.

While social media can be a huge advantage to raising children these days — finding support groups, play dates, birthday party ideas, etc. — I fear it’s only increased our anxiety and made us question if we’re equipped to handle this parenting gig at all.

What if we turned off the background noise? What if we made a concerted effort to care less about everyone else’s opinions of our parenting skills? More importantly, what if we made the same concerted effort not to judge other parents for their decisions — whether that be formula versus breastmilk, cloth diapers versus regular diapers or discipline versus punishment? The list is never-ending. We can choose to judge moms for going a different route than us, or simply accept that they made the best decision for their child.

We know parenting is exhausting. So why are we making it harder on ourselves? You and only you are fully equipped to raise your child. We weren’t meant to have all the answers. And if someone did, there would be a handbook by now. I’ve already searched on Pinterest. It’s not there. So put down your phone, show yourself some grace and go be present with your child. It may just give you the answers you were searching for.

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